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i always talk about kids i don't have
but i am planning a country
i actually have gotten alot of credit for my parenting stuff
which is funny
cause i have no kids
but if i want to consider planning for the next seven generations
i gotta think of.. the future.
duh
so i found myself planning america
and getting the boy baby bug
people say only women get <baby bug>
but I have it
like I am busy
I dont want kids
I dont want to wipe their ass or anything
i hate freud
i want to <reducefreudian complex with <proper> interaction.
you see
parents actually seek attention from the infant
they say goo goo gah gah
and want the kid to react
they think they are teaching it or something
people are natural right
but they are <not>
they are reading it in a book
the history of parenting on Earth..
well
i think the kids used to run around the jungle with lions and tigers and bears
they didn't worry about a helmet on their bike
or skinning their knee
i grew up right on the edge
it was all around me though
my family was pretty helicopter, but not shelter
alot of families helicopter and shelter
this builds that freud crap
you teach your kid attention seeking behavior because you want to goo-goo gah-gah with them, but they just mirror it.
see mirror neuron [science]
see mirror neuron + autism [science]
okay. so people are not bad for playing goo-goo gah gah and too many games with kids. it just is not the best parenting advice for emotional health of the adult child.
you want to guide your children towards a value system that is proper
but allow society to treat your child's health
it is okay for the uncle in a tribe to spank a kid
right?
all the kids run around
and all the moms watch out
and all the moms are moms to the kids
and all the kids and kids to the moms
anyway.
here is the deal
these psychology people are not wrong
but everyone is trying to treat freudian disorders or complex
without realizing where they come from
DAMMIT MOMMY
i hate it
it won't go away
i love my mother
what in the hell am i gonna do about it?
ya know
i tried to hate her for being mean to me about my schizo self and always treating me like a child
but i cant not love my mother
i am attached somehwere
i don't say that to be a sissy
i say that cause i ain't really attached to much
i like things
but i don't worry when they go missing or break
i fried a couple mother boards a few months ago
i just worked on it
some people woulda thrown that shit across the room
fucking little screws and boards and shit dnt fit where it is supposed to
i know enough about building a computer to fuck it up
either way
it didn't hurt <emotionally>
i wasn't <upsetcause i live on disability and couldnt afford a new mother board and shit.
i am impatient
i had to wait a couple days
but i didn't <go through anything>
that is one way to know you are not too attached.
if you lose your i-phone and freak out
i don't care what your freaking out about
or how important your call was
if you are freaking out cause your phone is gone or you credit card is missing
that is stupid
stupid okay
if your shit is missing or stolen
you either look for it or call someone
tell them what happened
it is all you can do
you cannot make a missing item reappear
and no matter how many times you tell someone how upset you are and how you are freaking out and don't know what you are gonna do cause the world is crumbling around you
okay. loss of i-phone should not cause emotional distress.
inconvient, a bit cranky over the lack of convenience or missed meeting
but you don't go around telling everyone on your friends list and messaging them OMG I LOST MY PHONE! BLAH BLAH BLAH
grow up people.
that is called an energy vampire
if someone is bitching at me about everything bad in their life all the time and doesn't know what to do about it ⦠ever and it is just the <statethey live in⦠called a life of drama.
i can't do it.
it will suck the soul right out of you
those are energy vampires
you don't have to listen to that
people just take it
instead of saying
"that sucks, what are you gonna do about it?"
i seriously
i can hear it
i want to complain when something happens to me
but if i hear the same complaint 10 times over 3 days from the same person
i don't know
i cant handle it
they are <usingme.
they are sucking from me because I let them.
if i am honest
they will be my friend and quit
or they will get angry
and become parasitic elsewhere.